Something I read in an AskMen article that was oddly fitting:
Lust is especially dangerous because it causes a man to think with his crotch and throw all reason and logic to the wind. When a man's in lust he doesn't care if he and his partner have anything in common. He's not interested in where she comes from or where she's going. His brain is only focused on using his key to unlock the door to the secret cave. If his partner's only in lust, she'll use this against him, but if they're both falling in love, this sexuality is a bond.
To answer your original question, I would think she's not ready emotionally. Just think with your head instead of your hormones. And 1 Corinthians 6:18 usually helps! |